{"id":3685,"date":"2021-05-21T09:51:08","date_gmt":"2021-05-21T09:51:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/?p=3685"},"modified":"2021-11-16T13:16:19","modified_gmt":"2021-11-16T13:16:19","slug":"cocuga-karsi-ebeveyn-arkadaslik-iliskisi-nasil-dengelenmeli-mec-blog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/tr-blog\/cocuga-karsi-ebeveyn-arkadaslik-iliskisi-nasil-dengelenmeli-mec-blog","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocu\u011fa Kar\u015f\u0131 Ebeveyn Arkada\u015fl\u0131k \u0130li\u015fkisi Nas\u0131l Dengelenmeli?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3685\" class=\"elementor elementor-3685\" data-elementor-settings=\"[]\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-section-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-c627230 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"c627230\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5eb4b92\" data-id=\"5eb4b92\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4400d2c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4400d2c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u00c7ocu\u011fa Kar\u015f\u0131 Ebeveyn Arkada\u015fl\u0131k \u0130li\u015fkisi Nas\u0131l Dengelenmeli?<\/h1>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1c9dd7a elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"1c9dd7a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1680\" height=\"780\" src=\"https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-1.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-1.jpg 1680w, https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-1-300x139.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-1-1024x475.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-1-100x46.jpg 100w, https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-1-1536x713.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-1-150x70.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1680px) 100vw, 1680px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-98a1b4e elementor-toc--minimized-on-tablet elementor-widget elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"98a1b4e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;headings_by_tags&quot;:[&quot;h2&quot;],&quot;exclude_headings_by_selector&quot;:&quot;.elementor-element-f2cab8d &gt; div:nth-child(1), .elementor-element-4ab4ef4, .elementor-element-41b1960 &gt; div:nth-child(1)&quot;,&quot;marker_view&quot;:&quot;numbers&quot;,&quot;minimize_box&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;minimized_on&quot;:&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;hierarchical_view&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;min_height&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;min_height_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;min_height_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"table-of-contents.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__header\">\n\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-toc__header-title\">\u0130\u00e7erik Tablosu<\/h4>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__toggle-button elementor-toc__toggle-button--expand\"><i class=\"fas fa-chevron-down\"><\/i><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__toggle-button elementor-toc__toggle-button--collapse\"><i class=\"fas fa-chevron-up\"><\/i><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__body\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__spinner-container\">\n\t\t\t\t<i class=\"elementor-toc__spinner eicon-loading eicon-animation-spin\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-187a4df elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"187a4df\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>Ya\u015famdaki pek \u00e7ok rolde \u00e7e\u015fitli modeller vard\u0131r. Ebeveynlikte de literat\u00fcrde otoriter, demokratik, izin verici, ilgisiz ebeveynlik modelleri vard\u0131r. Bunlar\u0131n pek \u00e7o\u011fu ebeveynlerin kendi ebeveynlerinden g\u00f6r\u00fcp modelledikleri, \u00e7evreden g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri ve kendi ideallerindeki ebeveynlikle birle\u015fir ve ortaya benzersiz bir ebeveyn modeli \u00e7\u0131kar. Asl\u0131nda her ne kadar modeller olsa da her \u00e7ocu\u011fun bili\u015fsel alanlar\u0131, sosyal duygusal y\u00f6nleri ve ilgi alanlar\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc oldu\u011fu gibi ebeveynlik modeli de birbirinden farkl\u0131 ve \u00f6zg\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u0130\u015fin i\u00e7ine bir de \u00e7evresel ve e\u011fitim fakt\u00f6rleri girince ortaya kendi i\u00e7inde benzersiz bir ebeveyn modeli \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p><p>\u201cHer ebeveyn \u00e7ocu\u011funa elindeki imkanlar\u0131n en \u00fcst\u00fcnde ve hatta belki kendi deneyimlerinin de \u00e7ok \u00fcst\u00fcnde f\u0131rsatlar yaratmak ister\u201d diyor B\u00dcMED ME\u00c7 Okullar\u0131 Moda Yerle\u015fkesi Okul M\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fc Say\u0131n Asl\u0131 \u00c7elik Karab\u0131y\u0131k.\u00a0 \u201cElbette sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcme ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131n, e\u011fitim imkanlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fun sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fiminde etkisi b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr ancak en az onlar kadar \u00f6nemli olan da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ebeveynleri ile olan ve ko\u015fulsuz sevgiye dayanan ili\u015fkidir. Bu konuda literat\u00fcrde pek \u00e7ok de\u011ferli yay\u0131n oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n devam\u0131nda daha \u00e7ok kendi uygulamalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tekrar de\u011ferlendirmeye yer vermek daha do\u011fru olacakt\u0131r\u201d diye devam ediyor.<\/p><h2><span class=\"blog-l2\">Bilin\u00e7li Ebeveyn Olmak ve Arkada\u015f Ebeveynlik<\/span><\/h2><p>Bilin\u00e7li ebeveyn olmak kavram\u0131, son y\u0131llarda \u00e7ok kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Yine son d\u00f6nemlerde pop\u00fclerle\u015fen \u201cmindfulness\u201d anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan gelen bilin\u00e7li ebeveynlik, \u00e7ocu\u011fun davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na ve s\u00f6zlerine kar\u015f\u0131 y\u00fcksek bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011fa sahip olmak anlam\u0131na geliyor. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n olumlu ya da olumsuz olarak nitelendirilen davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na sakin bir \u015fekilde ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek tepki verilmesi gerekti\u011fini savunan bilin\u00e7li ebeveynlik, ebeveyn ile \u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisini pozitif anlamda g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmeyi hedefleyen bir ebeveynlik anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131. Bilin\u00e7li ebeveyn olmak, istenmeyen davran\u0131\u015flarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda k\u0131z\u0131p ba\u011f\u0131rmak yerine daha \u0131l\u0131ml\u0131 bir tav\u0131r al\u0131nmas\u0131n\u0131 destekliyor.<\/p><p>G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde s\u0131k\u00e7a dile getirilen, bilin\u00e7li ebeveynlik kavram\u0131 ile de ili\u015fkili olan, i\u00e7inde modern, demokratik ve izin verici ebeveynlik modellerinden \u00f6zellikler de bar\u0131nd\u0131ran \u201carkada\u015f-ebeveynlik\u201d kavram\u0131n\u0131 da birlikte de\u011ferlendirelim. \u00d6ncelikle bir ebeveynin temel sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim; ko\u015fulsuz sevgi, g\u00fcven, d\u00fczen, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ya\u015fam ve geli\u015fme ko\u015fullar\u0131. Peki bir arkada\u015f\u0131n tan\u0131m\u0131nda hangi kavramlar yer al\u0131r? Sevgi, payla\u015f\u0131m, ilgi ve onay.<\/p><p>Say\u0131n Asl\u0131 \u00c7elik Karab\u0131y\u0131k\u2019a g\u00f6re, iki farkl\u0131 rol\u00fcn ortak \u00f6zellikleri de var; ilgi ve sevgi! Hem bilin\u00e7li ebeveynlik hem de arkada\u015f ebeveynlik, her \u00e7ocu\u011fun ilgi alan\u0131 ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc y\u00f6nleri farkl\u0131 oldu\u011fundan dolay\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzla iyi bir ili\u015fkiyi yaratmak i\u00e7in \u00f6nce onun mizac\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n ve onun ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131 oyunlara e\u015flik etmenin g\u00fczel bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 olabilece\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Her \u00e7ocuk oyun oynamay\u0131 sever. Oyun, hayal g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc ortaya \u00e7\u0131karan, heyecanland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve pek \u00e7ok zaman sosyalle\u015febildi\u011fimiz bir ara\u00e7t\u0131r. Oyunlar, \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzu \u00e7ok daha iyi tan\u0131mam\u0131za sa\u011flar.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8c6bf5b elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"8c6bf5b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-image\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1680\" height=\"780\" src=\"https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-2.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-2.jpg 1680w, https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-2-300x139.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-2-1024x475.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-2-100x46.jpg 100w, https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-2-1536x713.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C\u0327ocug\u0306a-Kars\u0327i-Ebeveyn-Arkadas\u0327lik-I\u0307lis\u0327kisi-Nasil-Dengelenmeli-2-150x70.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1680px) 100vw, 1680px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f44990b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f44990b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<h2><span class=\"blog-l2\">Bilin\u00e7li Ebeveynli\u011fin Boyutlar\u0131 <\/span><\/h2><p>ve Ebeveyn Arkada\u015f \u0130li\u015fkisinin S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00c7izebilmek<\/p><p>Bir ebeveyn d\u00fczen ve s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fa \u00f6\u011fretmeyip, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ke\u015ffetmesini beklerse, sonucunda s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 bilmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 olumsuzluklarda ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k hisseden ve \u00e7evresi taraf\u0131ndan da d\u0131\u015flanan mutsuz bir \u00e7ocukla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131labilir. Her birey gibi \u00e7ocuklar da, d\u00fczensizlik ve belirsizlikten dolay\u0131, kendileri bu \u015fekilde anlamland\u0131ramasalar da kayg\u0131 duyarlar ve s\u0131n\u0131rlara ihtiya\u00e7 duyarlar. Arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z bize limit koymazlar, o halde bu anlamda arkada\u015f gibi davranan ebeveynleri, s\u0131n\u0131r koyduklar\u0131nda kendilerine \u00f6fke duyan bir \u00e7ocuk bulmak \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 olmamal\u0131. Tabii ki her konuda oldu\u011fu gibi ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z de\u011fil, nas\u0131l yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z fark yarat\u0131r. S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 \u00e7izerken \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zla birlikte ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 belirlemek, onlar\u0131n fikirlerini almak, demokratik ancak kararl\u0131 olmak bizleri sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkiye g\u00f6t\u00fcrecektir. S\u0131n\u0131r koyarken \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zla birlikte ihtiya\u00e7 analizi yapmak \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p><p>Bilin\u00e7li ebeveynlik, arkada\u015f ebeveynlik ili\u015fkisinde s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 \u00e7izerken bunu \u00e7ocuklarla birlikte yapmaya olanak verir. \u00c7ocu\u011fu tan\u0131maya, onun ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 bilmeye ve hem ebeveyne hem de \u00e7ocu\u011fa fayda sa\u011flamaya y\u00f6nelik s\u0131n\u0131rlar belirlemek, bilin\u00e7li ebeveynlik sayesinde m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olur. Bilin\u00e7li ebeveynli\u011fin boyutlar\u0131, \u00e7ocukla ebeveyn aras\u0131nda sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve dengeli bir ili\u015fki kurulabilmesi i\u00e7in olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p><ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Dinlemek<\/b>: \u00c7ocuklar ile diyalog kurarken onlar\u0131 dikkatli bir \u015fekilde dinlemek ve g\u00f6zlemlemek, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda daha fazla fikir sahibi olmam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar. Bu durum ebeveynin ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu bilgileri edinmesini sa\u011flarken \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6zg\u00fcven seviyesine de katk\u0131da bulunur.<\/li><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>\u00d6nyarg\u0131lardan Kurtulmak:<\/b> Ebeveynlerin, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n belirli bir durum ya da olay kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki tav\u0131rlar\u0131na \u00f6nyarg\u0131s\u0131z yakla\u015fmas\u0131 gerekir. \u00c7ocuk ile ilgili beklentileri ve \u00f6nyarg\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fa yans\u0131tmak, \u00e7ocu\u011fun davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda olumsuz etkileyebilir.<\/li><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Duygusal Fark\u0131ndal\u0131k:<\/b> Ebeveynler de, t\u00fcm insanlar gibi, bazen duygular\u0131na yenik d\u00fc\u015febilir ve duygusal tepkiler verebilirler. \u00c7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 duygusal ve zihnin s\u00fczgecinden ge\u00e7irilmemi\u015f tepkiler vermeden ve hislerin fark\u0131nda olarak ileti\u015fim kurmak, \u00e7ocu\u011fun da duygusal fark\u0131ndal\u0131k kazanmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.<\/li><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>\u00d6z Denetim Becerisi:<\/b> \u00d6z denetim becerisi, duygusal fark\u0131ndal\u0131k ile do\u011frudan ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Bu noktada ebeveyn kendi duygular\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda olur ve duygusal tepki vermek yerine duygular\u0131na sahip \u00e7\u0131kar. Tepki vermeden \u00f6nce d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/li><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>\u015eefkat: <\/b>Bilin\u00e7li ebeveynlikte de arkada\u015f ebeveynlik anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131nda da, \u00e7ocu\u011fa her zaman yan\u0131nda oldu\u011fumuzu hissettirmek \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 empatik ve \u015fefkatli yakla\u015fmak, aradaki g\u00fcven ili\u015fkisini besler.<\/li><\/ul><p>Bilin\u00e7i ebeveynli\u011fin boyutlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocuk ile olan ili\u015fkide uygulayabilmenin baz\u0131 y\u00f6ntemleri vard\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin, \u00e7ocuklar ile birlikte yeni ke\u015fifler yapmak her bireyi, \u00f6zellikle de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 \u00e7ok heyecanland\u0131r\u0131r. Yap\u0131lan pek \u00e7ok ara\u015ft\u0131rma, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n unutamad\u0131klar\u0131 an\u0131lar\u0131n genellikle ebeveynleri ile ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7ek ya\u015fam deneyimleri oldu\u011funu g\u00f6steriyor. Onlarla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir gezi, bir kamp, bir yemek, bitki ekmek, bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 yapmak hem birlikte e\u011flenceli vakit ge\u00e7irmemizi hem de unutulmaz an\u0131lar biriktirmemizi sa\u011flar. Bilin\u00e7li ebeveynin arkada\u015f ebeveyn ili\u015fkisini kurmak i\u00e7in yapabilece\u011fi ba\u015fka \u015feyler de vard\u0131r.<\/p><h2><span class=\"blog-l2\">Bilin\u00e7li Ebeveyn Neler Yapar?<\/span><\/h2><ul><li aria-level=\"1\">Bilin\u00e7li ebeveyn, \u00e7ocu\u011funu \u00e7ok iyi tan\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n fiziksel ve zihinsel geli\u015fim evreleri ile ilgili fikir sahibi olan bilin\u00e7li ebeveyn, \u00e7ocu\u011fu ile ili\u015fkisini iyi bir \u015fekilde g\u00f6zlemler.<\/li><li aria-level=\"1\">Bilin\u00e7li ebeveyn, hem \u00e7ocu\u011fa hem de ailenin di\u011fer \u00fcyelerine sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterir. Aile i\u00e7erisindeki kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sayg\u0131ya dayal\u0131 ili\u015fki, \u00e7ocu\u011fa \u00f6zg\u00fcven a\u015f\u0131lar.<\/li><li aria-level=\"1\">Bilin\u00e7li ebeveyn, \u00e7ocu\u011funun bir birey oldu\u011funu ve ona ait olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabul eder. Dengeli bir arkada\u015f ebeveyn ili\u015fkisi ile bu fikri destekler.<\/li><li aria-level=\"1\">Bilin\u00e7li ebeveyn, de\u011fi\u015fime a\u00e7\u0131k ve esnek fikirlidir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n birbirinden farkl\u0131 oldu\u011funu kabul eder.<\/li><li aria-level=\"1\">Bilin\u00e7li ebeveyn, \u00e7ocu\u011fu ile zaman ge\u00e7irmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak aktiviteler haz\u0131rlar ve onunla daha fazla zaman ge\u00e7irir.<\/li><li aria-level=\"1\">Bilin\u00e7li ebeveyn, arkada\u015f ebeveynlik ili\u015fkisinin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 belirler. \u00c7ocu\u011fa daha fazla sorumluluk verir ve bu sorumluluklar\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/li><\/ul><p>T\u00fcm bunlardan g\u00f6rebiliriz ki asl\u0131nda arkada\u015fl\u0131k ve ebeveynlik, ortak \u00f6zellikleri olabilen ancak farkl\u0131 \u00f6zellikleri de belirgin olan iki farkl\u0131 rold\u00fcr. Nas\u0131l ki anneanne, \u00f6\u011fretmen ve arkada\u015f farkl\u0131 roller ise, ebeveynlikte de rolleri birbirine kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda bizleri tehlikeli ve dengesiz bir ili\u015fki bekliyor olabilir. Ebeveynlik modelimizi belirlerken, \u00e7ocu\u011fumuza rehber olma rol\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc unutmadan, g\u00fczel an\u0131lar biriktirecek \u015fekilde deneyimler tasarlamak; \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve sevgiye dayal\u0131 bir ili\u015fki yaratmam\u0131za, arkada\u015f ebeveynli\u011fin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 daha iyi belirlememize ve bilin\u00e7li bir ebeveyn olmam\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3d40b24 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3d40b24\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a1d2eb4\" data-id=\"a1d2eb4\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6ed729e elementor-post-navigation-borders-yes elementor-widget elementor-widget-post-navigation\" data-id=\"6ed729e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"post-navigation.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post-navigation\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post-navigation__prev elementor-post-navigation__link\">\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/tr-blog\/okul-seciminde-nelere-dikkat-etmeliyiz\" rel=\"prev\"><span class=\"post-navigation__arrow-wrapper post-navigation__arrow-prev\"><i class=\"fa fa-angle-left\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><span class=\"elementor-screen-only\">Prev<\/span><\/span><span class=\"elementor-post-navigation__link__prev\"><span class=\"post-navigation__prev--label\">\u00d6NCEK\u0130 \u0130\u00c7ER\u0130K<\/span><span class=\"post-navigation__prev--title\">Okul Se\u00e7iminde Nelere Dikkat Etmeliyiz?<\/span><\/span><\/a>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post-navigation__separator-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post-navigation__separator\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-post-navigation__next elementor-post-navigation__link\">\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/mecokullari.k12.tr\/tr-blog\/ilkokul-ogrencileri-icin-5-uzaktan-egitim-tavsiyesi\" rel=\"next\"><span class=\"elementor-post-navigation__link__next\"><span class=\"post-navigation__next--label\">SONRAK\u0130 \u0130\u00c7ER\u0130K<\/span><span class=\"post-navigation__next--title\">\u0130lkokul \u00d6\u011frencileri \u0130\u00e7in 5 Uzaktan E\u011fitim Tavsiyesi<\/span><\/span><span class=\"post-navigation__arrow-wrapper post-navigation__arrow-next\"><i class=\"fa fa-angle-right\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><span class=\"elementor-screen-only\">Next<\/span><\/span><\/a>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130\u00e7erik Tablosu Ya\u015famdaki pek \u00e7ok rolde \u00e7e\u015fitli modeller vard\u0131r. 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